She's Given Up Talking

Written by Paul McCartney

Album This song officially appears on the Driving Rain Official album.
Timeline This song has been officially released in 2001

Master release


Related sessions

This song has been recorded during the following studio sessions


Related interviews



The "Driving Rain" interview

November 2001 • From paulmccartney.com

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Song facts

She’s Given Up Talking” is a track from Paul McCartney’s 2001 album “Driving Rain“. 

Recorded on 17th February 2001 onto 16-track analogue tape then loaded into Logic Audio for overdubs. Paul played Martin acoustic guitar and sang the lead vocal then overdubbed Hofner bass with a fuzz effect and his own Ludwig drum kit. Abe played Roland Handsonic electronic percussion. Rusty played Gibson SG electric guitar through a Leslie pedal and overdubbed other guitar parts. Gabe played Hammond Organ. David overdubbed electric guitar.

From the liner notes of the album, and from paulmccartney.com

‘She’s Given Up Talking’ was about someone I know whose kid had gone to school and wouldn’t talk all day that she was in school. For a year she wouldn’t talk at school and his idea of her giving up talking seemed like a good title to me. I wrote the song a couple of years ago; when I was on holiday in Jamaica and remembered this story of this girl who wouldn’t talk to the teachers or anything – which I ended up thinking that was a pretty good strategy for school, I wish I’d have thought of that. Of course I would have just got caned, they were wise to that kind of shit, my school. Then I hastily put together the middle of ‘She’s Given Up Talking’ here in LA. One of the fun things about working here was because I hadn’t told anyone what we were going to do and hadn’t played them any demos, and instead came in and just said ‘right, we’re going to do this song,’ doing that gave me a little freedom and I didn’t have to finish the songs before ten minutes before the session. I’d run upstairs to the lounge above the studio and finish it quickly. I knew what I wanted for the middle – that when she gets home she talks a lot – so I just finished it fast.

Paul McCartney – From “The Driving Rain interview” published on paulmccartney.com, November 2001

Last updated on January 21, 2021

The book "The Lyrics: 1956 to the Present", published in 2021, covers Paul McCartney's early Liverpool days, the Beatles, Wings, and solo careers, by pairing the lyrics of 154 of his songs with first-person commentaries of the circumstances in which they were written, the people and places that inspired them, and what he thinks of them now.

"She's Given Up Talking" is one of the 154 songs covered.

Lyrics

She's given up talking
Don't say a word
Even in the classroom
Not a dickie bird
Unlike other children
She's seen and never heard
She's given up talking
Don't say a word

You see her in the playground
Standing on her own
Everybody wonders
Why she's all alone
Someone made her angry
Someone's got her scared
She's given up talking
Don't say a word

Ah but when she comes home
It's yap-a-yap-yap
Words are running freely
Like the water from a tap
Her brothers and her sisters
Can't get a word in edgeways
But when she's back at school again
She goes into a daze

Ah but when she comes home
It's yap-a-yap-yap
Words are running freely
Like the water from a tap
Her brothers and her sisters
Can't get a word in edgeways
But when she's back at school again
She goes into a daze

She's given up talking
Don't say a word
Even in the classroom
Not a dickie bird
Unlike other children
She's seen and never heard
She's given up talking
Don't say a word

She's given up talking
She don't say a word

Don't say a word

Officially appears on


Driving Rain

Official album • Released in 2001

4:57 • Studio versionA

Paul McCartney :
Acoustic guitar, Bass, Drums, Executive producer, Vocals
Rusty Anderson :
Electric guitar, Leslie pedal
Abe Laboriel Jr. :
Electronic percussion
Gabe Dixon :
Hammond organ
David Kahne :
Electric guitar, Mixing engineer, Producer
Mark Dearnley :
Mixing engineer, Recording engineer
Jaime Sickora :
Assistant engineer
Kevin Mills :
Second assistant engineer

Session Recording:
Feb 17, 2001
Studio :
Henson Recording Studio, Los Angeles

Bootlegs


Driving Rain - Ultimate Archive Collection

Unofficial album • Released in 2015

4:57 • Studio versionA

Paul McCartney :
Acoustic guitar, Bass, Drums, Executive producer, Vocals
Rusty Anderson :
Electric guitar, Leslie pedal
Abe Laboriel Jr. :
Electronic percussion
Gabe Dixon :
Hammond organ
David Kahne :
Electric guitar, Mixing engineer, Producer
Mark Dearnley :
Mixing engineer, Recording engineer
Jaime Sickora :
Assistant engineer
Kevin Mills :
Second assistant engineer

Session Recording:
Feb 17, 2001
Studio :
Henson Recording Studio, Los Angeles

Live performances

Paul McCartney has never played this song in concert.

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Corey Spaulding 6 years ago

it is called selective mutism - my child suffers from it and it was pure hell with the schools.


Mark Adams 6 years ago

Thank you for this, probably not a great idea to listen to this while at work as I am now in bits. It is like you have written a song specifically about my little girl. Thank you, I have forward this to my family members. I should say there are many out there with Selective Mutism and this no doubt speaks to the other parents as well. We can all shed a collective tear.


The PaulMcCartney Project 6 years ago

@corey, @mark, thanks you for sharing your personal experiences - great if Paul's song can put words on this, and share awareness / potentially bring some kind of relief as well.


sandyneedsmusic 5 years ago

Thank you for that song. As child i was suffering selektive mutism, too. By the way, it was music that helped me overcome!!


Erika Tobin 3 years ago

@thepaulmccartneyproject This song makes it seem like talking for this little girl is a choice, which it is not. SM happens because of paralyzing anxiety. My 5 daughter has SM and its been a nightmare for us all, not "a strategy" to get out of things at school.


The PaulMcCartney Project 3 years ago

Thanks Erika for sharing your experience - yes, I would imagine that "strategy" was not a well-chosen word when Paul explained the context of this song.


JoAnn 2 years ago

This describes my granddaughter to a tee. How did you nail this. I never heard of it before now... TY...people should be made aware...


JoAnn Murphy 2 years ago

My granddaughter to a tee, Otherwise a very bright delightful child.. People should be made aware, that it is real....


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